š³ SHOCKING THINGS I DID AS A MOM BEFORE I BECAME A FEEDING SPECIALISTā¦
And Iād do every single one again. š
Before I became an SLP & pediatric feeding therapist, I was a mom raising
two little girls. And apparently, on occasionā¦I broke a few ārules.ā š¤·š¼āāļø
1ļøā£ Let my 2 year-old make dinner.
If she didnāt want what was served, she could make herself @cheerios & milk.
No, I didnāt make it for her. Yes, milk dripped ALL the way to the table. š
2ļøā£ Let them wear Little Mermaid bathing suits to bed.
They loved them. Why not? š§āāļø
3ļøā£ Served toaster pancakes for dinner.
With plenty of syrup. š„
4ļøā£ Ate dinner in front of the TV.
Sometimes they saved their TV time for family movie night, so we ate
together watching...you guessed it...The Little Mermaid.
5ļøā£ Gave them an after-school snack in the car. Enough to take the edge off, but not fill them up. Hungry kids donāt always need to āwait for dinner.ā
6ļøā£ Let my daughter wear her great-grandmotherās old fashioned hats to
preschool. Complete with a brooch on the brim! š¬ She never met her, but adored those hats. ā¤ļø
7ļøā£ Taught them to use napkins early.
Yes, kids need opportunities to get messy. But manners matter too. Thereās
a time & place for both.
8ļøā£ Had picnics at bedtime.
After piano, T-ball & a long drive home, sometimes I set up a little picnic
while we read bedtime stories.
Did they brush their teeth afterward? Most of the time. š
After raising two daughters AND spending 25+ years as a pediatric feeding therapist, hereās what I know:
ā¤ļø Feeding children doesnāt have to be perfect. Neither does parenting.
Sometimes dinner is balanced around the family table.
Sometimes itās toaster pancakes, in front of Little Mermaid.
And sometimes those imperfect little moments become the memories you
treasure most.
š What parenting āruleā do YOU happily break on occasion?
Melanie ā¤ļø
Melanie Potock, explore page, pediatric feeding therapist, feeding kids,
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