Picky Eater Help

Expert Feeding Help
for Professionals and Parents

Melanie Potockā€™s keynotes, courses, books & articles focus on raising kids to be healthy, happy eaters. From babies to toddlers to teens, ā€œCoach Melā€ is here to help.

Raising a Healthy Happy Eater Isnā€™t Always Easy

Get Expert Advice on Feeding Babies, Toddlers & School Age Kids,

Including Extreme Picky Eaters

Upcoming Events & Courses

On-Demand Courses

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Atlanta, GA on April 27, 2024
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Food Allergies Masterclass, August 10, 2024
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Babies

This book is designed to answer the most common questions about feeding babies and toddlers up to age three. It also debunks myths while offering practical tips on making mealtimes joyful and less stressful. It teaches a no-nonsense, straightforward approach to responsive feeding thatā€™s focused on nurturing trust and communication between parent and child. Read more about Responsive Feeding here.

Toddlers & Preschoolers

In her award-winning book, Raising a Healthy Happy Eater, Melanie and her co-author, pediatrician Dr. Yum, teach parents how to guide their children on the path to adventurous eating.Ā  Parents report that toddlers are the most challenging to feed, thanks to active little bodies and fleeting attention spans.Ā  Learn how to lay positive foundations for eating at 6 months of age, navigate the ā€œterrific twosā€ and avoid picky eating in the preschool years!Ā  Get the brand new, updated 2nd edition. Read more about feeding young children here.

School Age

Kids can cook right along with their parents from an early age, but itā€™s especially important from preschool and into the elementary school years.Ā  Whatā€™s the number one food group that parents struggle with the most?Ā  Vegetables!Ā  The secret to helping kids love any kind of food is to follow Melanieā€™s Three Eā€™s: Expose, Explore, Expand.Ā  Youā€™ll learn how to use the Three Eā€™s and create veggie-love in Melanieā€™s book, Adventures in Veggieland: Help Your Kids Learn to Love Vegetables with 100 Easy Activities and Recipes.Ā  Read more about feeding school-age kids here.

More fun!

As a speech language pathologist, Melanie combined her love for language, little kids and food by writing a childrenā€™s book!Ā  You are Not an Otter: The Story of How Kids Become Adventurous Eaters is available on Kindle, in paperback, and in both English and Spanish.Ā  Donā€™t miss the parent tips in the back of the book!Ā  Learn about all of Melā€™s books here.


šŸ¤Want to prevent picky eating in your toddler and preschooler?

šŸ¤šŸ¤šŸ¤Here are 3 resources to guide you. But first, letā€™s rephrase this. Preventing picky eating IS POSSIBLE if a child doesnā€™t have medical, motor, sensory or other ā€œfeedingā€ issues that are getting in the way of becoming a picky eater. 

Soā€¦try these three strategies:

1.āœØInvest in a really good book to guide you ā€“ COMMENT #BOOKS for all my books. The award-winning Raising a Healthy Happy Eater, written with pediatrician Dr. Yum, is a step-by-step guide to raising an adventurous eater!
2.āœØOffer about a tablespoon of new food(s) at each meal. Exposure is everything! One tablespoon isnā€™t a waste if they donā€™t eat it, because they SAW IT. Thatā€™s the first step. (More in the book above.)
3.āœØGET HELP EARLY. Please donā€™t ā€œwait and seeā€ if your kidā€™s going to grow out of it. One out of four typically developing kids will develop a feeding disorder, where itā€™s more than picky. Ask your pediatrician for a referral for feeding therapy is you have any concerns, at all. 

šŸ¤āœØšŸ¤Bonus Tip: 
Mark my page as a FAVORITE please, so you get daily tips. Iā€™m so grateful that youā€™re following me. Thank you!
šŸ˜˜Melanie
#melaniepotock #pickytoddler #responsivefeeding #asha204 #slpfeeding


šŸ„›Milk can provide essential nutrients for kids, but when kids just guzzle & go, it doesnā€™t leave opportunities to explore new foods & become an adventurous eater. And, after babyā€™s first birthday, many pediatricians recommend switching from formula to whole milk, or possibly introducing whole milk even if breastfeeding.

Psstā€¦Youā€™re going to want to save this post for laterā€¦

šŸ„›Butā€¦Milk can cause a sudden decrease in appetite & desire for new foods, becauseā€¦Itā€™s filling. I challenge you to drink a mere 8 ounces of milk in the span of a few minutes. Thatā€™s less volume than a typical tall latte & your stomach has a greater capacity for more. Yet, youā€™ll feel pretty
full, almost immediately.

šŸ„›Same for kids ā€“ they go from hungry to satisfied in a matter of minutes.

šŸ’©Milk can be constipating if kids are drinking a lot. Constipation shuts down appetite, especially for new foods. Too much milk can also impact iron absorption.

šŸ¤”Wonder what to do? If your child can self-regulate milk & sips on it while eating the other food, then no worries! But if they are too dependent on milk to fill little bellies, then serve milk in a small straw cup with a thin straw, so itā€™s not as easy to guzzle. When itā€™s gone, thereā€™s still water that can
be refilled. Parent mindfully & compassionately: ā€œYou do love milk! We will have some more with
dinner.ā€

šŸŖWhat about snacks? Limiting milk to mealtimes helps kids focus on trying a variety of snacks. But, if you need a quick boost of energy, a small carton of milk with a straw is a terrific snack on the go.

āœØThe AAP recommends just 16 to 20 oz of milk for kids ages 2 to 5. Kids ages 1 to 2 only need 16 oz (24 max). Other dairy foods or dairy substitutes can be fine alternatives.

āœØBONUS fact (AAP)Children ages 12-24 months are advised to drink whole milk and children 2 and older nonfat (skim) or low-fat (1%) milkā€
šŸ„°Melanie
 #melaniepotock

ā¤ļøThis is educational content only - not medical advice.


šŸ„If your picky eater eats NOTHING but dinner rolls at the holiday family dinnerā€¦

šŸ˜¤And ANYONE protests, fusses, or is downright mean to you about itā€¦

šŸ„°Give them my Instagram. Tell them to DM me. Iā€™ve got your back.

ā¤ļøSeriously, try to rememberā€¦family holiday mealtimes are about FAMILY more than the food. 

šŸ—Feed your kiddo ahead of time if youā€™d like. 

šŸ—Bring them their own food & let the hosts know. Hold your ground and explain that youā€™d like to focus on the HOST and not how much your kid eats.

šŸ—Or just donā€™t explain at all. You donā€™t have to explain. 

šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļøYou just need to show up, be pleasant, and help with the dishes. There. Youā€™re the perfect holiday dinner guest. DONE.

ā¤ļøDrop a heart if you agree, and send this to video to a friend who needs a little extra love today.
šŸ„°Melanie
#melaniepotock #pickyeater #slpfeeding #asha2024 #ARFID #ARFIDrecovery #feedinglittles #feedingtherapy #extremepickyeating


šŸ—£ļøComment ā€œMALINAā€ & Iā€™ll send you the direct link to order @healthy.mom.healthy.kids NEW book to help prevent your child from developing food allergies. šŸ’–

šŸ’–Malina wants all of you to know that (and Iā€™m quoting her, here, because sheā€™s an incredible resource for you!)
āœØFood allergies affect 1 in 13 kids and can be life-threatening, but they are often preventable.
āœØThere's a critical, short window in a baby's first year of life to reduce food allergy risk
āœØMost parents (and even most healthcare providers) need more up-to-date information on food allergy prevention, as well as practical feeding guidance in order to make it actionable

šŸ‘‰šŸ¼Get the book that is an evidence-based, comprehensive baby-led feeding guide and cookbook with step-by-step guidance on starting solids and reducing the risk of food allergies, 8 weeks of BLF + allergen maintenance meal plans, and 80 family-friendly recipes to make the process streamlined, flexible, and delicious, all based on the latest research.

šŸ—£ļøComment ā€œMALINAā€ for a direct link to purchase or go to FoodAllergyPreventionBook.com to learn more.

šŸŽ‰šŸ„³šŸŽŠCongratulations Malina! šŸ„°Melanie
#melaniepotock #introducingsolids #whatifeedmybaby #blwideas #expectingparents #3monthsoldbaby #4monthsoldbaby #5monthsoldbaby #6monthsoldbaby #startingsolids #foodintroduction #firsttimemama #allergybaby #allergens #babyledfeeding #breastfeedingtips #formulafeeding #exclusivelypumping #ivfmama #expectingmom #newmama #firsttimemom #babyledweaningideas #breastfeedingmom #blw #breastfeeding #7monthsoldbaby #8monthsoldbaby #feedingbabies


ā˜ŗļøWho me? 

šŸ‘‹šŸ¼Iā€™m Melanie, feeding specialist, 6X author to help you raise healthy, happy eaters, and influencer for trusted, top brands in the baby & kid space at @naturallyinfluenced. International speaker. First-time GiGi. Very uncoordinated on the dance floor, but never going to stop dancing. Thatā€™s me!šŸ„°

šŸ’œI love family, kids & food. And I love that youā€™re following me here. Thank you!

ā¤ļøDrop a heart in the comments ā€“ would love to know you better! 

šŸ’ƒMelanie
#melaniepotock #feedingslp #pickyeatingexpert #startingsolids #responsivefeeding #asha2024


ā¤ļøJust call me GiGi, now and forever. Being a first-time grandparent is INCREDIBLE & Iā€™ve learned so much about new products to make my time with baby easy & fun!

āœØCOMMENT grandparent or parent (great for both generations!) & Iā€™ll DM you my affiliate links to my tested & true favorites from highchairs to car seats to so much more!

šŸ¤”If I had to pick ā€“ I would have to say everyone needs a @tushbaby. Saves my back, keeps baby close and comfy. PLUS, as speech language pathologist I love that baby is so close to my face to get the sweet connection that helps develop babyā€™s language skills! 

ā¤ļøā“ā¤ļøWhat do you love best about being a grandparent or parent? Tell me in the comments!

šŸ„°Melanie
#melaniepotock #notsponsored #amazonaffiliate #asha2024 #slpfeeding #firstgrandbaby


#ad #ellaolapartner āœØWhen your childā€™s a picky eater (and I work with the most extreme picky eaters) I know it feels scary. šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļøYouā€™re constantly worried that you childā€™s pickiness will lead to nutritional deficits, especially when they refuse to eat a variety of healthy foods.

ā¤ļøFinally, thereā€™s hope. @EllaOla Unflavored Multivitamin packets were developed by Pediatrician and Pediatric Dietitians (and moms!) as an alternative to the traditional gummy or chewable vitamins - this multivitamin has all the good stuff your little ones need without any of the icky stuff like dyes, artificial additives, or added sugar.

āœØLetā€™s be sure to talk about choking. And as a feeding specialist with 30 years of experience helping the pickiest of eaters, I know that choking prevention is crucial for learning eaters. Many of the kids on my caseload canā€™t chew or arenā€™t safe to swallow pills ā€“ or simply will not try new tastes or textures without months of feeding therapy. When I need to consult with their RDN to find vitamin for them right away and @EllaOla gets the RDNā€™s thumbā€™s up! šŸ‘šŸ¼

āœØImagine - what if you could rest assured that your kiddo is getting the minerals and vitamins they need ā€“ because you simply stirred in the finest, lightest, colorless, tasteless powder into your picky eaterā€™s preferred foods? 

āœØIā€™ve tested it in mac-n-cheese, catsup, ranch dressing and milk, just to name a fewā€¦andā€¦

āœØI cannot taste, smell or detect it at all.āœØItā€™s a game changer!

ā¤ļøMelanie
#melaniepotock #feedingspecialist #kidsvitamins #kidsmultivitamin #ellaolapartner #pickyeaters #arfid #autism #feedinglittles #slpfeeding #melaniepotock


ā“šŸŽNeed 50 more ideas for babyā€™s first birthday? Comment FIRST for a direct link to my favorite feeding tools and toys! 

šŸ„³Happiest first birthday to your little munch bug!

šŸ„°Melanie
#melaniepotock #firstbirthday #smashcake #slpfeeding #asha2024


šŸ˜’Is he going to be a picky eater? Maybe. But today heā€™s getting fruit for lunch and nothing else.

šŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļøGeez, this is hard. Hi, Iā€™m Melanie, a pediatric feeding specialist and supposedly an ā€œexpertā€ on picky eating. Six books on the topic, 30 years experience and did I say this is HARD?

ā¤ļøThatā€™s my grandbaby. Heā€™s teething. Heā€™s miserable. And you know what makes him happier than a pig in mud? Fruit. Going to @chickfila and all those cows. šŸ®One of his first words was ā€œmoo!ā€) Being held A LOT. šŸ„¹
 
šŸ’”And when youā€™re kid (or grandkid) isnā€™t eating, itā€™s stressful. But the occasional skipped meal, or a meal of just one food, isnā€™t going to sabotage your plan to raise an adventurous eater.

šŸ‘šŸ¼Consistently offering the same foods over and over leads to picky eating, and research shows that. But you know what? Today we are just eating fruit and having lots of snuggles, or ā€œhugglesā€ as we call them in our family.

āœØHere are tips to avoid the picky eating trap (when kids arenā€™t hurting, or sick). Try your best toā€¦

āœØKeep toddlers (and big kids) on a consistent meal and snack time schedule. Grazing kills appetite and is terrible for kidā€™s dental health.

āœØDonā€™t stress if they donā€™t eat that snack or meal. Breathe. Try again in a few hours.

āœØFocus on offering VARIETY. A little bit of this, a little bit of that. More if they want it. 

šŸ®šŸ’—No matter what, keep it fun: COWS. Moos. Huggles.

ā“Questions? Iā€™m here to help ā€“ drop them in the comments. Iā€™ll answer in between all the moos and huggles today. 

šŸ®ā¤ļøšŸ®Melanie
#melaniepotock #teethingbaby #fussyeating #pickytoddler #feedingtherapy #asha2024


Melanie Potock

Pediatric Feeding Expert and Author

Melanie Potock, MA, CCC-SLP is a mom who once had a picky eater.Ā  Sheā€™s experienced first-hand the stress that parents feel when they are worried about their childā€™s nutritional health.Ā  Fast forward to today, and youā€™ll find Melanie blending her knowledge of feeding therapy with practical parenting strategies that help the entire family eat healthier.Ā  Sheā€™s an international speaker and author of six books, including co-authoring the award-winning Raising a Healthy Happy Eater.Ā  Whether you’re raising a child who seems to be on the path to loving all kinds of healthy foods (and you want to keep it that way) or if your child is stuck in the chicken nugget rut, ā€œCoach Melā€ is here to guide you.

Melanie's Advice Shared In...

  • Washington Post
  • PBS Kids
  • Wall Street Journal
  • Autism Parenting Magazine
  • CNN
  • ASHA Blog
  • ASHA Leader
  • Parents.com
  • The Bump
  • New York Times
  • WebMD
  • Parents
  • Romper
  • Fit Pregnancy
  • Georgia Chapter AAP
  • Fatherly
  • Care.com
  • Dr. Greene
  • Yahoo Parenting

Courses for Parents & Professionals

Melanie offers both on-demand courses and live-streaming Masterclasses.Ā  CEUs are optional for both OTs and SLPs, yet audience members include parents, RDs, pediatricians & other health care professionals.

Need help with a picky eater, or just want to prevent kids from falling into the chicken-nugget rut?Ā  As a parent, SLP or OT, what do you need to know about child nutrition?Ā  What about the anxious eater ā€“ Could this be more than just picky eating?Ā  Melanieā€™s on-demand course subscriptions provide the answers!

Want more in-depth instruction in a small group, virtual setting?Ā  Register for one of Melanieā€™s Masterclass!

Explore course options here.

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Parenting Advice

Melanieā€™s advice has been shared in The New York Times, Washington Post, The Wall Street Journal, Parents Magazine and more. Over 150 articles for both parents and professionals are found here or contact Melanie for a personal one-hour coaching session via video chat.

Masterclass participants get a 25% discount on coaching.

Learn more about professional and parent coaching here.

Keynote Speaking

An international speaker, award-winning author and pediatric feeding specialist, audiences find Melanieā€™s advice to be practical and possible, even in the most challenging cases.Ā  Thatā€™s because Melanie is in the trenches, working closely with the most extreme picky eaters and supporting families and health professionals around the world. Melanie has been invited to speak at over 100 different events, including the American Speech Language Hearing Associationā€™s National Conference and the Food and Nutrition Conference and Expo.

Audiences say it best: If you are looking for a professional speaker who can ā€œprovide practical solutionsā€ for parents, caregivers and therapists and your company needs a ā€œhighly knowledgeable, organized presenterā€ with ā€œenergy and enthusiasmā€ who can deliver a ā€œdynamic courseā€, then your best choice is Melanie Potock. Contact Melanie here.

Product Consulting

Need expert input on your new parenting product?Ā  Melanie has provided expert advice for Orgain, Inc., Holland Health Care, Inc., Healthy Height, Inc., NumNum, LLC and numerous health care and parent product companies.

Looking for an expert to educate your team on how children learn to become adventurous eaters, baby-self feeding or the importance of purees?Ā  Feeding is developmental, just like learning to crawl, walk, run. At least 1 in 4 typically developing children have trouble learning to eat! Ā Raising a healthy, happy eater requires the right tools and the right advice. Ā Melanie provides company education and collaboration via webinars, social media and creating educational videos for your audience.

Contact Melanie here.

Blog

feeding advice for parents and professionals

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Parenting a Picky Eater,

50 Easy Ways to Get Your Kid to Eat New Foods

ByĀ Salma Abdelnour Gilman It may seem like an impossible dream right now, but your kid has the potential to love all kinds...Read More
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Sensory Concerns,

A Special Needs Guide for Learning to Eat with Your SEVEN Senses ā€“ Part One

  Most of us think of five senses and the human body: Sight, sound, smell, taste and touch. But, when it comes...Read More
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Parenting a Picky Eater,

3 Ways to Explain Baby-Led Feeding to Your Extended Family

By Melanie Potock, MA, CCC-SLP Whether itā€™s a holiday dinner, a virtual family brunch or an outdoor family picnic, well-meaning relatives may...Read More
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Parenting a Picky Eater,

Planting for Kids

By The Lettuce Grow Team Melanie PotockĀ has a knack for taking eaters of all ages from picky to passionate. Here are a...Read More