Picky Eater Help

Expert Feeding Help
for Professionals and Parents

Melanie Potock’s keynotes, courses, books & articles focus on raising kids to be healthy, happy eaters. From babies to toddlers to teens, “Coach Mel” is here to help.

Raising a Healthy Happy Eater Isn’t Always Easy

Get Expert Advice on Feeding Babies, Toddlers & School Age Kids,

Including Extreme Picky Eaters

Upcoming Events & Courses

On-Demand Courses

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Live In-Person Events

Atlanta, GA on April 27, 2024
Anderson, SC on April 29, 2024

Live On-Line Courses

Food Allergies Masterclass, August 10, 2024
Appetite Masterclass, August 10, 2024

Babies

This book is designed to answer the most common questions about feeding babies and toddlers up to age three. It also debunks myths while offering practical tips on making mealtimes joyful and less stressful. It teaches a no-nonsense, straightforward approach to responsive feeding that’s focused on nurturing trust and communication between parent and child. Read more about Responsive Feeding here.

Toddlers & Preschoolers

In her award-winning book, Raising a Healthy Happy Eater, Melanie and her co-author, pediatrician Dr. Yum, teach parents how to guide their children on the path to adventurous eating.  Parents report that toddlers are the most challenging to feed, thanks to active little bodies and fleeting attention spans.  Learn how to lay positive foundations for eating at 6 months of age, navigate the “terrific twos” and avoid picky eating in the preschool years!  Get the brand new, updated 2nd edition. Read more about feeding young children here.

School Age

Kids can cook right along with their parents from an early age, but it’s especially important from preschool and into the elementary school years.  What’s the number one food group that parents struggle with the most?  Vegetables!  The secret to helping kids love any kind of food is to follow Melanie’s Three E’s: Expose, Explore, Expand.  You’ll learn how to use the Three E’s and create veggie-love in Melanie’s book, Adventures in Veggieland: Help Your Kids Learn to Love Vegetables with 100 Easy Activities and Recipes.  Read more about feeding school-age kids here.

More fun!

As a speech language pathologist, Melanie combined her love for language, little kids and food by writing a children’s book!  You are Not an Otter: The Story of How Kids Become Adventurous Eaters is available on Kindle, in paperback, and in both English and Spanish.  Don’t miss the parent tips in the back of the book!  Learn about all of Mel’s books here.


❓Wait - Babies can have raw celery and raw carrots even before starting solids? BE SURE TO KEEP READING so you know how to do this safely.

🥕Teethers for 5-month-old babies can include hard, resistive food such as a fat carrot stick, or a wide stalk of celery. Here’s what you need to know:

1. Always supervise baby with food teethers.
2. Make sure their back/trunk is well supported so that their little hands can easily bring the food teether to their mouth ( just like a non-food teether).
3. Wash food teethers thoroughly before offering to baby.
4. Safety Test: Can you snap it in half with your thumb and forefinger on the same hand? Yes – don’t offer it. No – offer with supervision!

🥰Benefits?
Even before baby is ready for solids (closer to 6 months of age) they can get small tastes as they mouth these resistive foods, just like you can taste carrot if you lick a carrot! Babies are open to trying new tastes and programmed to explore with their littles hands to mouth, so this is the perfect time to introduce veggies in this manner.
👉🏼Like any teether, the munching (up and down repeated chomps) will strengthen their jaw and facial muscles. It will also offer sensory input in terms of different textures, cooler temperatures and because it’s food – flavor!
👉🏼All teethers help babies learn to manage their gag reflex, but in my professional experience, I notice that babies like to suck on food teethers as well as try to chew them. 👉🏼Both are great experiences for the mouth, and both “work” areas of the tongue that play a part in developing tongue lateralization skills, tongue protrusion skills (for spitting out food) and learning to manage the sensation of a gentle gag with no other food in the mouth.

🪥Think of it this way – if you experience a gagging sensation, do you find it easier to manage if you accidently did that with you toothbrush or if you accidently start gagging while eating? The toothbrush of course! Neither is comfortable at first, but the toothbrush is quickly removed and we can swallow to relieve the sensation.

❓Questions? Drop them in the comments!
❤️Melanie
#melaniepotock #foodteethers #ashaigers #babyfood #feedingtherapy


😳If you’re a parent of a picky eater, you know how stressful it can be! Me telling YOU to calm down is NOT going to help.🤦🏼‍♀️

🤍But was IS going to help, is putting on your best academy-award performance and modeling calm in the moment. Then, we can brainstorm together on which strategies to try at the next meal. Kids go through phases or picky eating, and some require feeding therapy to help them find the joy in food. It’s VERY stressful for the parents and the child – and the siblings & extended family too! 

❓Want to learn strategies right now? 

🗣️COMMENT VIDEO & I’ll send you a discount for any course that I teach on my on-demand course library.

✨DM me if you have questions about which course is best for your situation – and know that this will get better with the right support. 

🧘🏼‍♀️Here’s to modeling calm in the moment.

🤍Melanie
#melaniepotock #pickykids #pickytoddlers #slpfeeding #ashaceus


🥰I’m adding more feeding and kid’s toy deals as you read this…so keep checking back!#amazonaffiliate #ad

✨COMMENT DEALS and I’ll send you a link so you can shop right away!

💙👩🏼‍🍳💙I had fun making this list for you, and I hope you find it helpful. Also…that blue play kitchen. Did you spot it? ✨Gorgeous!✨

😘Melanie
#melaniepotock #amazonbigdealdays #feedingkids #feedingtherapy #pickyeaters


🎉It’s  going to be an incredible year!
✨DM me to learn how your #pediatrichospital #speechtherapyclinic or #conference can book my courses in 2025! 
🥰Melanie

#melaniepotock #slpfeeding #ashaigers #feedingtherapy


Serious play happening!🤍Lovevery Play Kits are designed by child experts to for your child’s stage of development, but don’t be surprised if they continue to play with toys from various kits for many months to come! 

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🤍This little man is playing with…

🫶🏼Stainless Steel Tip & Turn - just one of the toys from The Explorer Play Kit 
✨Practice bilateral coordination with two-handed play.

🫶🏼Ball Drop Box - just one of the toys from The Inspector Play Kit
✨Build gross motor skills while learning that something can be there even when you can't see it.

🫶🏼Spinning Rainbow – just one of the toys from The Sensor Play Kit
✨Perfect for practicing fine motor skills and reaching with both hands at once.

🫶🏼Race & Chase Ramp – just one of the toys from The Adventurer Play Kit
✨Explore motion and direction with our unique side-by-side racing ramp.

🥰DM if I can help you choose which is best for you! Have you tried @lovevery Play Kits yet?

❤️Melanie

#melaniepotock #LoveveryGift #Lovevery


🍁3 easy & inexpensive fall food favorites for your baby & toddler!

🎃Pumpkin is a squash, but most often we scoop pumpkin puree right from the can this type of year! Be sure to get 100% pure pumpkin & not pumpkin pie filling, which has added sugar. Try stirring in a dash of cinnamon and serving it straight from the spoon or stirred into various pasta sauces, like marinara. Your kids will get an extra boost of micronutrients, vitamins & carotenoids so important for good vision!

🍂🍁🍂Squash is plentiful right now, and can stay fresh in a cool, dark place for months to come. So stock up when it’s on sale & buy lots of varieties! My favorite way to prep it for any age is to roast till soft & then cut into soft cubes for baby to self-feed. It’s nutritious & loaded with fiber, so terrific for kids’ gut health too!

🍎Apples – did you know there are over 2,500 varieties grown in the USA? Raw apples are a choking hazard for babies and toddlers, but you can still grate bits of raw apple for babies if they have developed their pincer grasp. Try roasting a whole apple in the oven to serve over several days in soft, safely cut cubes or thin slices or to stir into other foods, like oatmeal. Apples last for weeks if stored in the fridge but even longer in a cool, humid & slightly dark place.

❓🍂🍁🍂❓Tell me, what’s your favorite – pumpkin, squash or apples this time of year???
🥰Melanie

#melaniepotock #foodforbabies #toddlerfood #responsivefeeding #slpfeeding


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🥰Melanie @mymunchbug_melaniepotock 

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#pickyeater #arfid #autism


🤍Negative reinforcement is more common than you think…in fact, parents do it quite often. 
 
🤍And, it’s not a bad thing, nor is positive punishment. Confused? 

🤷🏼‍♀️Most people are by these terms! 

🫶🏼Hi, I’m Melanie, and I help parents raise healthy, happy eaters. Let’s break down what “negative” and “positive” refer to – it’s all about MATH. Here’s just one example, and there are more in the reel for you to screenshot.

👏🏼Let’s start with “YAYYYY!” 

👏🏼👍🏼Seems like a positive thing, right? Clapping and saying “YAYYYY!” for your child? If it is, then when you ADD IN THE YAY, you are using positive reinforcement because you ADDED IT and it reinforced the behavior, making it more likely to occur again.

👏🏼👎🏼BUT, what if you’re kid hates loud attention like that, and I clap and loudly exclaim “YAYYYY, you did it!”…that’s actually positive punishment. I ADDED IN something they don’t like, making the behavior less likely to occur.

🤔So, “YAY!” can be a reinforcer or a punishment, but either way, when you ADD IT IN, it’s going to be called “positive” punishment or “positive” reinforcement - it’s about ADDITION. The term positive has very little to do with emotion and everything to do with addition vs. subtraction.

📸I hope you’ll screenshot where prompted in this reel…then… let it digest. Then drop your questions in the comments – I’m here to help!

🥰Melanie
#pickyeaters #feedingtherapy #parenting #parentingtoddlers #parentingpreschoolers #myfirstkid


👶🏻When baby starts solids, that’s the time to teach the word “chew”. 
 
🫶🏼Hi, I’m Melanie, pediatric feeding specialist here to help you with learn about feeding babies, toddlers & so much more! Also - I can’t spell exaggerate. Did you catch that?🤦🏼‍♀️

✨As a speech language pathologist, I can share with you that kids understand more words than they can say. 

✨While seated across from baby, exaggerate your chewing (open mouth, big chews!) and say “chew, chew” slowly. 

✨First, they’ll learn what the word chew means, when YOU do it.

✨Later, they’ll learn how to imitate the up-and-down movement of your mouth. Babies start with a munching pattern (up-and-down pattern) anyway, and we don’t expect a more circular chew at first. So munch, up and down, and say “chew, chew, chew” as you do!

✨Not every food requires this modeling, but when you begin to offer small meltable crackers or meltable O’s or Puffs (or freeze-dried fruits that start crunchy and melt quickly, as seen in this video) then you’ll be glad you introduced the concept early. 

❓Questions? Need more tips? Drop them in the comments!

📌Save this post – or share – or both! I hope you and your friends find it helpful!

🥰Melanie
#melaniepotock #slpfeeding #ashaigers #feedingbaby #firstbaby


Because Fridays are for pool time and snacks 🤍💦

🥰 Wishing you the best weekend! 
🫶🏼Melanie

#melaniepotock #onceuponafarm #firstgrandbaby #snacksfortoddlers #notanad


🗣️📚Comment BOOKS for my latest books on raising healthy, happy eaters and climbing out of the chicken nugget rut. 

☹️I know so many of you are disappointed that Adventures in Veggieland is no longer in print BUT you can still get it via Kindle AND at your local library. There are used copies too – just comment BOOKS to see options and …don’t forget these 3 books below - all available in print and digital versions! 

📘Responsive Feeding: The Baby-First Guide to Stress Free Weaning, Healthy Eating and Mealtime Bonding

📗The award-winning Raising a Healthy Happy Eater, co-authored with pediatrician Dr. Yum! If you have the old version, it’s time to update by commenting BOOKS.

🦦My children’s book, YOU ARE NOT AN OTTER! It’s all about adventurous eating (and lots of cute animals!)

❓Tell me, do you have any of these?

🥰Melanie
#melaniepotock #experimentpublishing #pickyeater #healthykidsfood #healthykidsmeals 
#feedingtherapy


Melanie Potock

Pediatric Feeding Expert and Author

Melanie Potock, MA, CCC-SLP is a mom who once had a picky eater.  She’s experienced first-hand the stress that parents feel when they are worried about their child’s nutritional health.  Fast forward to today, and you’ll find Melanie blending her knowledge of feeding therapy with practical parenting strategies that help the entire family eat healthier.  She’s an international speaker and author of six books, including co-authoring the award-winning Raising a Healthy Happy Eater.  Whether you’re raising a child who seems to be on the path to loving all kinds of healthy foods (and you want to keep it that way) or if your child is stuck in the chicken nugget rut, “Coach Mel” is here to guide you.

Melanie's Advice Shared In...

  • Washington Post
  • PBS Kids
  • Wall Street Journal
  • Autism Parenting Magazine
  • CNN
  • ASHA Blog
  • ASHA Leader
  • Parents.com
  • The Bump
  • New York Times
  • WebMD
  • Parents
  • Romper
  • Fit Pregnancy
  • Georgia Chapter AAP
  • Fatherly
  • Care.com
  • Dr. Greene
  • Yahoo Parenting

Courses for Parents & Professionals

Melanie offers both on-demand courses and live-streaming Masterclasses.  CEUs are optional for both OTs and SLPs, yet audience members include parents, RDs, pediatricians & other health care professionals.

Need help with a picky eater, or just want to prevent kids from falling into the chicken-nugget rut?  As a parent, SLP or OT, what do you need to know about child nutrition?  What about the anxious eater – Could this be more than just picky eating?  Melanie’s on-demand course subscriptions provide the answers!

Want more in-depth instruction in a small group, virtual setting?  Register for one of Melanie’s Masterclass!

Explore course options here.

Booking Signing

Parenting Advice

Melanie’s advice has been shared in The New York Times, Washington Post, The Wall Street Journal, Parents Magazine and more. Over 150 articles for both parents and professionals are found here or contact Melanie for a personal one-hour coaching session via video chat.

Masterclass participants get a 25% discount on coaching.

Learn more about professional and parent coaching here.

Keynote Speaking

An international speaker, award-winning author and pediatric feeding specialist, audiences find Melanie’s advice to be practical and possible, even in the most challenging cases.  That’s because Melanie is in the trenches, working closely with the most extreme picky eaters and supporting families and health professionals around the world. Melanie has been invited to speak at over 100 different events, including the American Speech Language Hearing Association’s National Conference and the Food and Nutrition Conference and Expo.

Audiences say it best: If you are looking for a professional speaker who can “provide practical solutions” for parents, caregivers and therapists and your company needs a “highly knowledgeable, organized presenter” with “energy and enthusiasm” who can deliver a “dynamic course”, then your best choice is Melanie Potock. Contact Melanie here.

Product Consulting

Need expert input on your new parenting product?  Melanie has provided expert advice for Orgain, Inc., Holland Health Care, Inc., Healthy Height, Inc., NumNum, LLC and numerous health care and parent product companies.

Looking for an expert to educate your team on how children learn to become adventurous eaters, baby-self feeding or the importance of purees?  Feeding is developmental, just like learning to crawl, walk, run. At least 1 in 4 typically developing children have trouble learning to eat!  Raising a healthy, happy eater requires the right tools and the right advice.  Melanie provides company education and collaboration via webinars, social media and creating educational videos for your audience.

Contact Melanie here.

Blog

feeding advice for parents and professionals

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Parenting a Picky Eater,

50 Easy Ways to Get Your Kid to Eat New Foods

By Salma Abdelnour Gilman It may seem like an impossible dream right now, but your kid has the potential to love all kinds...Read More
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Sensory Concerns,

A Special Needs Guide for Learning to Eat with Your SEVEN Senses – Part One

  Most of us think of five senses and the human body: Sight, sound, smell, taste and touch. But, when it comes...Read More
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Parenting a Picky Eater,

3 Ways to Explain Baby-Led Feeding to Your Extended Family

By Melanie Potock, MA, CCC-SLP Whether it’s a holiday dinner, a virtual family brunch or an outdoor family picnic, well-meaning relatives may...Read More
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Parenting a Picky Eater,

Planting for Kids

By The Lettuce Grow Team Melanie Potock has a knack for taking eaters of all ages from picky to passionate. Here are a...Read More